Salem High c/o '98 - 10 year Reunion

The Reunion Is Cancelled

We regret to inform you that due to lack of interest this reunion has been cancelled. The current reunion committee is stepping down. For those of you that signed up for the reunion, your payments will be returned you via checks within the next week.

The reunion committee is comprised of all volunteers so anyone is free to plan another reunion.


Throw Back!

Remember when we all gathered in the gymnasium to take the class photo? If you don't, hopefully this will refresh your memory! Can you spot yourself?


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Reunion Costs...      updated 2/19/08 8:17AM

Why does the reunion cost $93 per person?
Unfortunately, unlike other graduating classes, the class of '98 did not have any start-ups funds to off set the cost of planning a class reunion. Nor was any fundraising done in advance to raise money for our reunion. As such, we (the class of 98) have to cover all of our own expenses. The Reunion Committee, which consists of three people, has gone out-of-pocket, over $2000 to date, to cover all of the basic expenses for putting together the reunion.

What are the basic expenses?
Like most things in life, nothing is for free; and our class reunion is no exception. The basic expenses for putting together our class reunion included:   Read More...
  • the deposit for securing the banquet rental
  • the cost for the park rental
  • the cost for catering food for both events
  • the cost for alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks
  • gratuity charge
  • booking service charge
  • sales tax for both events
  • food delivery charges
  • cost of a DJ
  • bartender
  • attendant (you know, the person who cuts the meat at the carving stations)
  • decorations
  • give-ways
  • web site set-up

What does my $93 get me?
We did not want this to be the typical boring class reunion, like most of the class reunions around our area. And lets face it, most of you were not thrilled at the idea of going to Bush Gardens or Kings Dominion or the Spirit of Norfolk again. We also thought of having it at the school gym as an option, but having a reunion in the school gym sounds pretty lame! Plus no alcohol is permitted on school grounds. So instead we planned an entire Saturday with a “casual family event” and a “fun adult event”, the perfect combo for a great reunion! This way you have an entire day to catch up with your friends. Your $93 pays for all of the basic expenses listed above for the two main events: the Family Picnic and the Reunion Banquet. Check out all the details of these events in the Reunion Events section. Please note ALL money collected for the reunion will go strictly for paying reunion expenses.

Why don't we have any money?
Typically, each graduating class holds on to any remaining funds their class raised during the four years of high school. This money is held in a bank account and collects interest over time. The funds are then used to help pay for a 10 year class reunion. In our case, our elected student body donated our remaining class funds to the graduating class of '99 back in 1998.

Are you sure the class of '98 doesn't have any money?
Yup, we're sure *lol* One of our first tasks was to find out how much money our class had. We had zero start up funds for putting this together.

What are we gonna do about it?
We are going to fundraise and solicit sponsors for our class reunion. Fundraising for our class reunion should have begun a year in advance of the reunion and throughout the past 10 years but a reunion committee was not formed until recently. The current reunion committee spent the last two months in 2007 conducting research, scoping out locations, pricing and planning a reunion weekend that covers the basic expenses without sacrificing the quality of the planned events. With money raised from fundraising and sponsorships will be used to purchase extras. Extras include door prizes, T-shirts and other souvenirs, possibly a large grand prize give away or cover the cost of having an open bar at the banquet. At this point in time fundraising will not lower the cost per person it will only help purchase extras.

Why won't Fundraising lower the cost per person?
In order to lower the cost per person, we needed to have a reserve of money up front to cover the basic expenses. Had we had a reserve to cover the basics, the cost per person would have been significantly lower. For example had we had the money to cover the cost of the DJ, the park permit or the deposit for booking the banquet venue that would have been one less item(s) calculated in the ticket prices. Since we had no money to off set the costs, everyone who attends shares in the cost.

So what happens to the money raised with the Fundraising?
All money raised with the fundraising will benefit you, the attendees. Depending on how much money is raised, the funds can go towards purchasing goodie bags filled with souvenirs to hand out, reunion T-shirts, memory booklets, door prizes, an open bar etc. Normally ticket prices cover these things when you have "reserve" to start with.

We have a couple of great ideas for fundraising that will yield high profits, but it's going to require team of organized, savvy and most importantly committed members. So contact Shaina at akanaina@yahoo.com and help!

Why can't we just pay our own way at these places for what we want?
No matter where the reunion banquet is held, the location has to be reserved in advance. You can not show up with 100+ folks and expect to be served as a group or given a private area to gather at. For example, you just can't show up Apple Bee's or Red Lobster with 100+ folks and expected to be seated and have an organized event without proper planning and venue reservation. You can't even show up at Chuck E. Cheese and have a party without putting down money and planning it and Jillian's is no exception. The same holds true for the park as well. You can not show up a Virginia Beach park with a large crowd and expect to have a shelter. You have to pay for a permit and reserve your spot. Or else you risk not having a shelter, not having use of the grill, and not having an centralized area to gather and serve food for your event.

Last time I checked if our events are catered the food delivery charges and the attendant should be included. We shouldn't have to pay for the website either. We didn't ask for it. Also do you realize how difficult it will be on that saturday, spending all day at the park then haveing to change the evening event. why cant we scrape the picnic and use the money for Friday and have only a two event to night deal. That just easier. I was at the meetings and it was brought up then if we should have three day/event reunion. However, at that time we also agreed that it shouldn't cost an arm and a leg to attend. Where was everyone when I said that we should meet every month so we can have our fundraisers. No one wanted to meet. so I think that this is way to outragous we are looking to spend about 150 a person for this reunion, bc WE have to pay for Guadalajaras

1. Last time I checked if our events are catered the food delivery charges and the attendant should be included.
Please send us the the names of catering companies that deliver large quantities of food for FREE and also provide food attendants for free. Last time I checked, you can't even get a pizza from Papa John's or Chinese food delivered to your house without paying extra for delivery. The catering company we are dealing with for the picnic has a package specifically with picnic friendly food: Fresh Fried Chicken, Chopped Pork BBQ, All Beef Hot Dogs and Hamburgers, Buns and Rolls, Baked Beans, Cole Slaw, Potato Salad, Potato Chips, Fresh Baked Cookies, Chewy Chocolate Brownies and they charge for delivery. Secondly, Jillan's requires an attendant for the carving stations, this is not negotiable. Plus we're having a hard enough time as is getting volunteers, I doubt we'll find someone who wants to volunteers to stand behind the meat and cut off slices the entire night of the banquet lol

2. We shouldn't have to pay for the website either. We didn't ask for it.
Come on, lets be adults here---this is the Information Age; web sites are the number one form of communication and it cost far less than using paper and snail mail (the post office) to communicate. Without a web site how are we going to communicate information to you in a efficient, timely fashion? The cost and man power to 1) purchase paper or pay for copies 2) the cost of envelopes 3) the time it takes to stuff and seal the envelopes and 4) the cost of stamps, cost WAY more than the cost of setting up a web site. Lets do the math, approximately 557 students graduated from the class of 98'. How do we know this? We have the Commencement booklet handed out and we counted every name listed. Lets multiply that number by the cost of a single stamp 42¢, that alone cost is $223.94 just to mail out a single mailing. That cost way more than the cost of setting up a web site! Secondly, everyone is not on My Space or Facebook. Some folks don't have internet access at home or the only time they have a chance to get online is at work. Websites like My Space and Facebook are usually blocked, so all reunion information should not be on these proprietary sites. Third, the school won't even release the names and the last known addresses of former students, so even if we did have the money to do paper mailing, who are we going to mail to without address? Regardless of your form of communication it's going to COST MONEY. Regardless if its a website or buying stamps, paper and envelopes to mail letters, it cost TIME and MONEY. And we have to pay for it. You can not do it all for FREE! Come on, lets use common sense here. A website is the cheapest form of communication and we think it's unanimous that a web site is the best form of mass communication.

3. Also do you realize how difficult it will be on that saturday, spending all day at the park then haveing to change the evening event. why cant we scrape the picnic and use the money for Friday and have only a two event to night deal. That just easier.
The picnic is from 11am - 3pm the Reunion Banquet does not start till 7pm. If you leave the picnic at 3pm, you have 4 full hours before the Reunion Banquet. We think that's a reasonable time frame. If you feel you may need additional time to get ready for the banquet you might want to leave the picnic a little bit early to give yourself more time.

4. I was at the meetings and it was brought up then if we should have three day/event reunion. However, at that time we also agreed that it shouldn't cost an arm and a leg to attend.
The paid reunion events are on a single day, Saturday. The Friday and Sunday events are optional, thus we are not collecting any payments for these events. Folks are free to show up or not show up. Also, to put things in perspective ....we've been out of school for a total of 10 years. If you saved $10 a year for every year you've been out of shcool....the cost of the Reunion is still cheaper.

5. Where was everyone when I said that we should meet every month so we can have our fundraisers. No one wanted to meet so I think that this is way to outragous we are looking to spend about 150 a person for this reunion, bc WE have to pay for Guadalajaras.
How did you announce to the class of '98 that you wanted to fundraiser? What form of communication did you use to get the word out? When you say "no one" how many people did you ask? Who specifically did you ask? Did you reach out to Salem High and ask them to put an announcement on their web site to get the word out? Did you set up a monthly meetings and announce the location and time? Did you request that their be a posting on My Space soliciting volunteers? Sometimes you have proactive instead of reactive, especially when putting together a grassroots event. The current reunion committee feels that they took a proactive approach at planning the reunion and here's how: a posting was put on the My Space months in advance requesting Suggestions, Help and Contact information. Personal letters were sent to each and every alumni found on My Space requesting Suggestions and Help with reunion ideas and activities. We contacted the Virginia Beach Publich School System and requested that a posting be added to the High School Alumni and Reunion Information page and requested Suggestions and Volunteers for reunion ideas and activities. All of this was done BEFORE any events were planned. We did get a few responses and a second email was sent specifically to the few folks who told us they wanted to help. So far to date, only two folks have stepped up to help. But if you are still interested in helping with fundraising, we are putting together a Slient Auction to raise money and can use all the help we can get!

Now lets discuss Guadalajara. We spoke to the management at Guadalajara's and they would not allow us reserve an area for food and drinks for a large party on Friday evening, they suggested to us to show up with cash bar and grill, so that's why this event is described as informal and with a cash bar and grill. If you choose to spend over +$50 on food and drink at Guadalajara's for yourself that's is completely out the Reunion Committee's control. Again, nothing is for free. If you can find a place were we can show up and eat and drink and gather for FREE, lets us know. Any place worth its salt is going to cost more than than $2 or $3 bucks.

Got more questions?
Send us your questions by using the form on the Contact Us page or use the shout box. We will keep this as a running section and post answers to all relevant questions asked.

Mark your calendars!!

Save the Date!
The Salem High c/o '98 ten year reunion will be held the weekend of July 18th, 19th and 20th! Plan ahead, put your vacation time in and you outter-towners start looking up flight info. Here's a quick breakdown of events.

We start with a casual gathering Friday evening at Guadalajara. Then Saturday from 11am-3pm, we’ll have a family picnic at Great Neck Park. Saturday night will be the main event, the Reunion Banquet, including hors d'oeuvres, dinner, drinks, music and all sorts of fun stuff. This will be held in the Mojo Lounge at Jillian's, located right on the waterfront in Norfolk. Then on Sunday we'll end the weekend with breakfast and we're hoping to arrange a tour of Salem afterward.

Everyone must pre-pay for the Saturday events, the Family BBQ/Picnic and the Reunion Banquet. All other events are pay upon arrival for food & beverages.   Read More...

  • Friday Night                   Meet & Greet
  • Saturday                         Family BBQ/Picnic
  • Saturday Night              Reunion Banquet
  • Sunday                           Breakfast/Brunch
  • Check the Reunion Events section for full details of the reunion weekend.

    Where does your money go? Everyone who attends our reunion shares in the cost of putting it on. ALL funds collected go to defray the cost of banquet rental, park rental, food & beverage for all the events, gratuity, entertainment by a DJ, bartender charges, decorations give-ways and web site costs. The Reunion Committee has gone out-of-pocket for these expenses until your payment is received. We will begin taking payments online in mid-Feburary.

    Join the Reunion Krewe

    Help Wantedand volunteer to support your reunion activities! We're looking for volunteers to help us with various activities in the coming months.

    For most of the activities, it doesn't matter where you're located or how much (or little) time you have to contribute. The Reunion Krewe will work with you to find an activity that you can support. We need help with ...

    Family BBQ/Picnic
    Can you grill a hot dog? Of course you can! Volunteer to work the grill, pick up last minute items, plan or coordinate children's activities, and/or help setup the picnic area.

    Fundraising

    We want to give out tons of extra's at the reunion. Help with raising money for extra's.

    Reunion Banquet
    We need help with table decorations, registration check-in, finding donations for door prizes, and more.

    Do you have other ideas? Can you support us in other ways? Contact Us


    Class Reunion FundraiserHelp Wanted


    As we all know, generating initial start up funds can be a monotonous task for any one person to handle. That is why we are turning to you and asking for your assistance with fundraising. By helping with fundraising, you will help us achieve our goal in providing a weekend of socialization, enjoyment, and reminiscence for the Salem High graduating class of 1998.

    There are number of items such as t-shirts, goodie bags, door prizes and memory booklets that we would like to provide you during the reunion weekend. But we can't do this without money. Our goal is to raise $1000 (or more) by July 1st 2008, which give us a little over five months.

    Please know any funds raised will be utilized for the sole purpose of our high school class reunion.


    Welcome Back Class of 1998

    Welcome to the official Salem High Class of 1998 web site.  This is your one stop spot for ALL reunion information. No rumors here, if its posted on this site, it's true!

    It's hard to believe that it has been 10 years since we last roamed the halls of Salem.  Lets reminisce for a minute......remember hanging out in the Commons before the bell rang, or how about gym class and the physical fitness challenges....the shuttle run....the pull ups....the mile run. And what about that huge rope that dropped down from the gym ceiling that we actually had to climb! Remember running through the bus loop when the buses started cranking up, or maybe you were one of the kids laughing, as others ran frantically looking for their bus. How about lunch period, where the best food was packaged items and everyone had their lunch tables clicks. Remember when Jerry Springer was the hottest show on TV and you couldn't wait till a day off school to catch it! And we can't forget about all the trips to Bush Gardens, Kings Dominion and D.C.; and although we had been a thousands times, we still kept going back year after year. And lastly remember how you got everyone you knew to sign your yearbook and every note ended with K.I.T (keep in touch). Ahhhh, the memories.    Read More...

    Some of us kept in touch and some of us didn't, but now is the time to connect with those old friends and reminisce on the good times you shared in high school. Your 10-year reunion only happens once, so dust off your yearbook and flip through the pages. Wonder what happened to that person you had a crush on senior year? Wonder if "most popular" is still popular? Having flash backs of detention or in school suspension? Wish you could burn your year book picture? Or want to show off the new you or your new family? Well here's your chance and this promises to be the BEST planned and organized reunion that Salem High has ever had! --but it will only be a success if you turn out! Take a moment and go through the web site and check back frequently for updates. And don't forget to give a shout and take the poll.


    Dig out those old photos!

    10 years ago we really didn't have the luxury of digital cameras; all we had was the "old fashioned" film photoones. But we would REALLY like to have a slide show to run with photos during the dinner on Saturday night, but to do that we need some of YOUR pictures!

    Please send any photos you care to share of your years at Salem, and / or your years since Salem to photos@salemhigh98.com. PhotoShare pictures from anything that’s happened in your life in the past 10 years that you want to share--college graduations, wedding photos, your kids, vacation shots, your first home. If you have access to a scanner, scan 'em in and e-mail 'em. Thanks in advance!

    Wanna Help???

    Many people expressed interest in helping out, for now we really need help getting the word out and contacting as many classmates as possible. Please forward this web site to any classmate who you are still in contact with and encourage the classmates you keep in contact with to pass the word on to classmates with whom they still keep in touch. We suspect we'll reach most of the class this way (it’s that “six degrees of separation” thing again).

    Of course as we get closer to the reunion we'll need folks to help out at each event. To officially put your name on reunion volunteer list please send an email to volunteer@salemhigh98.com.


    The Reunion: What's planned and why

    StuffIn planning the reunion, we've received excellent feedback from our classmates and many other people organizing their class reunions. We've taken what people thought did (and did not) work at other reunions and hopefully we've hit on a plan for the event that will allow you reconnect with old friends and enjoy a pleasant evening out.

    Booking a class reunion poses some unique challenges: you need a place for anywhere from 50 to 250 people that will allow you to chat it up with old classmates. You also need to keep costs down; but not so much that you're eating McNuggets for dinner. We think we've found an ideal place that will make for a great reunion on just about every level.

    The per-person price of pervious class reunion varied wildly among the groups. Some reunions were as low as $35 a person (but people sat on folding chairs at card tables eating plastic food off plastic dishes) to about $75 a person with open bar. We will have something very nice just about in the middle.

    The selected date will always be a problem for someone. That being said, we've talked to Party Girlsvarious reunion organizers and almost everyone agreed that a weekend during the July 2008 will allow the most people to attend. Other organizers suggested that people from outside the area arrange to visit family in town the year of the reunion.

    We firmly believe that it will be worth the effort you put forth to be in the area and attend the reunion. We've run into many of our classmates over the years, and no matter where we've gone in life, each meeting has been fascinating. We're a pretty unique group of people and this will be an exciting evening that you'll remember well past 2008.   Read More...

    We will be making down payments to the various venues in January and announcing all the reunion weekend events along with pricing info shortly. Since no contracts have been signed we don't want to leak any venues names or locations until everything has been finalized. But here's a quick run down on the weekend events activities:

    • Friday Night - Meet & Greet
    • Saturday - Family BBQ/Picnic
    • Saturday Night - Class Reunion
    • Sunday - Breakfast/Brunch

    Once all the details are finalized we will update the site with detailed information on each event.